Work With Whitni...


Here are a few different ways to work with Whitni directly or indirectly. Including Individual & Couples Coaching, workshops, Patreon, & OF Spicy Account…links & details are below!

*Testimonials can be found at the bottom of this page.*


There are free resources available on the resources page.

Couples & Individuals Coaching

Does sex feel like a performance to you? All acting and anxiety with little room left for pleasure? Or maybe you used to have a high desire for sex, but now you notice a dip? Perhaps you’re in a long term relationship and the two of you have hit a rut that you’re not sure how to communicate about?

Let me be your intimacy accountability coach. I am here to help you unlearn the BS and learn the real science behind what turns us on.

I offer two 10 week programs. One for couples to help them with communication, navigating different desire styles, exploring kink, and generally finding the ways they complement one another to cultivate the sex they want. The other for individuals looking to do the same for themselves in a 1:1 setting. Each of the 10 sessions is different & tailored to what the couples or individuals would like to explore.

I am deeply passionate about consent and my top priority is to empower my clients, aka YOU, to own pleasure in a way that feels the most fulfilling.

*Our 10-Week Coaching Program with Whitni is the most intensive custom designed program we offer. There is a limited number of spaces available within this program. Apply today for the 10-Week Coaching Program.*

Apply for the Program Here!


Upcoming Events:

Topic: LBL Sex-Ed

When: June 27, 2024

Time: 7:30-10:00pm

Investment:  $85

*Recording will be provided if you are unable to attend live.*
*If you miss a workshop make sure to sign up for the mailing list so you are among the first to be informed when one is offered!
Register Here

Workshop Access
Available for Purchase:

 *Shifting to Pleasure

*Navigating Responsive Desire

*Creating a D/s Dynamic

*Intro to Impact Play

Investment: $50 each


Purchase Access Here


Discovering Your WLW Sexuality: An Empowering Workshop for Late Bloomers

Are you a late bloomer navigating the world of WLW (women-loving-women) sex? Join us for an empowering workshop designed to help you embrace and explore your sexuality with confidence and authenticity.

What to Expect:

  • Expert Guidance:¬†Led by Whitni, a queer couples intimacy expert, this workshop dives into the unique journey of late bloomers.
  • Understanding Compulsory Heterosexuality:¬†Gain insights into the profound impact of societal expectations and learn strategies to navigate your path.
  • Open Discussions:¬†Engage in meaningful conversations about initiating talks before, during, and after sex.
  • Safe Sex Practices:¬†Learn about safe sex tailored specifically for WLW individuals.
  • Tips and Techniques:¬†Discover invaluable tips and techniques for a fulfilling sexual experience.

Who Should Attend:

  • Late bloomers exploring their WLW sexuality.
  • Bisexual and pansexual individuals are warmly welcome.
  • Those seeking guidance on their journey.
  • Anyone curious to learn more in a supportive environment.

Why Attend:

  • Safe and supportive space for dialogue and exploration.
  • Opportunity to share experiences and ask questions.
  • Empowerment through knowledge and community support.

Bring your questions, experiences, and an open mind. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together!


Gain access to exclusive content made by Whitni including weekly video tutorials (tailored to patrons requests/needs), worksheets, resources, & messaging.

Investment: $15 per month

Note: To access this content you must be able to sign in on YouTube to show you are 18+

Subscribe Here



Subscribe to the only place where you can find Whitni's recreational content. It is all ethical,  consensual, & communicative.

Investment: $12/mo

*NOTE: To access this content you must be able to verify you are 18+

Join Here